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Here’s a peak into my last few days, and an important question I need some sound advice on.
First, toothpaste does not expire. I finally looked it up after struggling with the decision for the very last time to throw excess tubes out or not. There are expiry dates because it’s required by law but apparently that’s the only reason. Probably not a good idea to keep a tube lying around for 5 years but after 1 or 2 giver’.
Second, I’ve been packing again for my 315th move of the past five years. Each time I vow to get rid of stuff, weed some things out and lessen the load. Does one box of garbage stuff count? I seriously think I have a problem.
Third, I bought some more scarves. 5 scarves for $10. Even if I didn’t need more scarves, which I don’t, how the hell would I pass that up?! I love a good deal. This was at Ardene’s in case you are wondering and for those who have the store near by.
Ok now last but definitely the biggest, this is a whopper…my question…
What do you do if you know someone who is getting cheated on and they have not a pin prick of an idea?
Here’s my thoughts on this situation for a little info. before you hopefully reply with advice;
If she was told she could possibly not believe a word of it. He would most definitely deny, deny, deny. I know from experience that when you truly want to believe something so badly isn’t true you can find a way to convince yourself of it.
This would flip her entire world upside down. Complete devastation. Who the heck wants to be the one to bring that on….yikes.
I know what I would want if it were me but it’s not like I have a spy cam or something with concrete proof to go to her with.
Then there’s all the arseholes who are afraid of being involved in the he said/she said aspect of it. People have been mad at me before, I’m not too worried about that part. I think in comparison to the poor girl getting her heart ripped out I can handle it. Not that I’d look forward to the drama, I do have some whoppers of my own to deal with.
I’m not one to put myself into people’s business, I mostly really disrespect that except this is a circumstance where it might be ok.
I’m wondering if I were to say something if any of the others that know (which is pretty much everyone) would stand up and confirm the lying bastard’s escapades or if they’d cowardly deny knowing anything of the sort.
I am really at a cross road here. Do I mind my own business and wait, inevitably it will come out in some way being that many people do actually know about this most recent one or do I blab the news and watch her world come crashing down? (Unless she refuses to believe it and I come out looking like a real donkey)